I often talk about the need to minimise effort if we want behaviour to happen. The easier something is to do, the smaller the payoff for bothering needs to be.
Sometimes we need to do hard things. We want to do hard things.
There’s the thrill of riding a roller coaster, the relief of passing exams and the satisfaction of climbing a mountain. The adrenaline of presenting your ideas to a crowded room.
In these cases, making the hard thing easy would negate its worth.
My number one tip, when people ask about habit change, is your physical environment. Set it up to make it easy to do the right thing and hard to do the wrong thing.
But there’s a problem with relying on your environment. What if it changes?
I was travelling recently but completely forgot to take my vitamins in the morning. Why? The context had changed.
The behaviour of taking my vitamins is tied to my breakfast routine at home, and it turns...
When it comes to changing your own behaviour or someone else’s, two simple rules are:
To reduce the likelihood an existing behaviour will continue, just add friction. For example: